Antoni Porowski Can CookOn March 11, 2018 by Margot
“It’s such a beautiful thing that you don’t have to waste,” he said of the oft-discarded end of the cheese block.
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While the sauce simmered, Mr. Porowski, wearing a thin white T-shirt and slim-fit jeans, prepared ground turkey meatballs with crushed fennel, chili flakes, honey and more cheese. Behind him, a bowl of fresh spaghetti sat below the mouth of an extruder. He would have to make more for a dinner party that night, where he was to feed his boyfriend, Joey Krietemeyer, and three of their close friends.
On “Queer Eye,” a reprise of Bravo’s “Queer Eye for the Straight Guy,” which ran from 2003 to 2007, Mr. Porowski shares recipes that are useful for easy entertaining. He teaches Tom, who has been divorced three times and is trying to rekindle love with his most recent ex, how to make a creamy guacamole with Greek yogurt. He fries up grilled cheese for Neal ahead of a release party for his app. He shows Jeremy, a firefighter, how to dress up hot dogs to serve at a fire station fund-raiser.
Think pieces criticizing these “basic” recipes swiftly followed. Out magazine called Mr. Porowski’s use of Greek yogurt in guacamole “absolutely blasphemous.” Bowen Yang, a writer at Vulture, wrote that Mr. Porowski prepares “food a child would make when they’re old enough not to need a sitter. Any queer loves a grilled cheese, but it’s not a revelation to cut it into four triangular pieces.”
Mr. Porowski, 33, said that he tries his best to ignore the noise, but admitted that it hurts to hear, not least because he knows that an act as elementary as cutting open a fruit can be eye-opening for some people.
“Tom Jackson never saw the inside of an avocado before,” he said. “We had all these other components that we made for that food demo that I wanted to show him how to make if we had a chance to. But when I cut open that avocado, he looked over in this childlike wonder and was actually amazed.”
He lamented that negativity was a natural response to a program that elevates ordinary people to “hero” status. “I think that’s why the show is doing so well,” he said, noting that “Queer Eye” is available to stream in 190 countries. “It’s about kindness, and we haven’t seen that in a really long time.”
Mr. Porowski was born in Montreal after his parents emigrated from Warsaw with his two older sisters. They spoke Polish at home, and he learned English and French simultaneously from television and in school. At any given time, the family had two miniature dachshunds, including one his grandmother smuggled into Canada from Poland “back when you were able to.”
Mr. Porowski is also a dog lover and has set his sights on a corgi. “As Joey pointed out, in this small of an apartment, we can’t have an extra beating heart,” he said. So while he waits to upgrade to a bigger space, he keeps corgi magnets on his fridge that display the aphorisms “I rock the belly flop” and “Life is short, so are my legs.”
After studying psychology at Concordia University, Mr. Porowski moved to New York to pursue acting. He took food service jobs to make rent, and eventually worked his way up to management at the sushi restaurant BondSt. All the while he was auditioning for acting gigs with limited success.
“It’s usually like, ‘I’m Antoni Porowski, 5’11¾.” Here’s Polish Terrorist No. 2,’” he said. “And then you scream when you leave the room, and it’s done. And you never hear back.”
His luck changed at a book signing for Ted Allen, who was the original “Queer Eye” food and wine expert on the Bravo series. The two became fast friends, and Mr. Allen hired Mr. Porowski as a personal assistant and became his mentor. A little over a year later, when one of Mr. Porowski’s friends who works at Untitled Entertainment alerted him to the Netflix reboot, Mr. Allen was the first person Mr. Porowski called for advice.
“He’s like, ‘Antoni, do you really want to do this?’” Mr. Porowski recalled. “I was like, ‘I don’t know, but I think that I should try.’” Mr. Allen put in a call to the show’s co-creator David Collins, and after a grueling series of auditions and chemistry reads, Mr. Porowski was welcomed into the new Fab Five.